Cyberbullying
As a parent of a young
teenager, cyberbullying is a topic that is always in the back of my mind. My
daughter has SnapChat and Instagram to keep up with friends, classmates, and
teammates, but I am always left wondering if there is ever anything I need to know
about. I try to keep open conversation about online discussions and what her
friends are ‘up to’, but parents never truly know everything that is going on
in their children's lives. As Kristen Hicks stated in Teacher’s Guide to
Digital Citizenship, “Neither
educators nor parents have the means to completely control how students use
technology”. We must teach our children and students about internet
safety and trust that they have the tools to handle situations properly.
As a
4th grade teacher, I always discussed internet safety with my students. As I read
all of the material this week, I now feel that I failed them in a way. I never
focused on cyberbullying; I honestly felt they were too young to be on social
media. According to a report by CNN, in the United States alone, approximately
50% of children have social media accounts at age 12.
This
shows that we must teach children about cyberbullying even at the elementary
school level.
Cyberbullying
is the verbal abuse or threatening of another person through any means of
technology, but primarily through the use of social media. I was shocked to
find that as many as 1 in 3 young people have been the victim of cyberbullying,
with only 1 in 10 telling a parent about the incident (Bullying Statistics).
As librarians, we must teach young people the proper way to use technology,
whether it is for research or social media. How It’s Done: Incorporating
Digital Citizenship Into Your Everyday Curriculum explains The Digital
Citizenship Project and gives great ideas of teaching digital literacy in
classroom. Allowing older students to mentor younger students not only puts
students in charge of their own learning, it also allows students to receive
information from someone other than a teacher or parent. Not only does this
model work for middle and high school students, I feel that elementary age
students could benefit from this plan as well. In elementary school, students
are at such a impressionable age that they can quickly get sucked into a world
of the unknown without even realizing what has happened. In other words,
bullying can be taking place without them knowing it. Teachers and librarians
must focus on providing lessons on internet safety and the prevention of
cyberbullying. We owe it to our students to protect them from potential online
dangers.

Jayme,
ReplyDeleteI loved your post. Cyberbullying is a very scary thing for parents and teachers because it is easily hidden and less tangible than a physical bully. Both are equally damaging and hurtful, but I think many parents are unaware of their children's hidden social media accounts. I imagine parents check the accounts they know of, bit many children set up multiple accounts on sites that parents are familiar with or accounts on social media sites parents are unaware exist.
Tiffany Anderson
Great post, Jayme! I'm surprised to see that the average age of students with social media accounts is 12. I agree that we must begin to focus on cyberbullying in the elementary school to prepare students for the future. I hope that creating a community where students feel comfortable and safe to ask questions and seek help is a way to combat cyberbullying. With my son, I am voyaging into the world of social media and working to see that he is as safe as I can keep him. I am learning many new things about social media and it is definitely concerning as a parent and educator! Thanks for sharing Jayme!
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